Re: What Do You Dislike About Your SO?
Here's my list:
1. He is always "trying to be helpful" as he puts it. He always says things to me like, "should you be eating that?" "you know that's not good for you" etc. It's annoying and even though I tell him that it's not helpful he can just not say something! ANNOYING! And trust me, I eat healthy most of the time. It's usually right before my time of the month that I am super hungry and loves my chocolate.
2. He half ass does everything when it comes to housework or anything including the kiddies. He will clean up after dinner (which I cook!) but his cleaning consists of just piling every thing on the counters or in the sink. So, I am stuck REALLY cleaning every thing up. Or if he helps give the kids a bath he never cleans up the bathroom when he is done. Towels every where, dirty clothes on the floor, water on the floor still, etc.
3. He has less patience than I do with the kids and he only sees them for a few hours when he gets off of work. I try to tell him that he needs to enjoy the kids more and that they will be grown and out of the house before we know it.
4. I try to explain to him that it would help my willingness to want to have sex with him if he would help me out. I absolutely do not like when he is in bed (waiting for me) while I am doing 50 things (and wishing I could be in bed relaxing). And then as soon as I drop dead in bed he says, "You want to have sex?" Ummm...not really buddy! If he would help I would seriously have some energy to do it. I take care of three children under 5 all day long and cook, clean, home school, etc. A little help would go along way. He helps me, I help him. Why doesn't he get that? lol
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