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This is a discussion on What do you think?? within the Relationships and Family Life forums,----- I've been seeing this guy for about two weeks now, I really like him and we pretty much hang out ...
I've been seeing this guy for about two weeks now, I really like him and we pretty much hang out every other day. I feel like there is no communication though when we aren't together. He has never phoned, or texted me, only talks to me on msn, and even still not that much. But when we are together he's cuddly, we laugh easily, talk together easily...so what gives? Why doesn't he call? And why does the communication suck when we aren't together? :S it makes me wonder if hes really into me or not.
No I haven't bother to call or text him. We usually just talk on msn when he gets in from work. He has my numbers but he doesnt use them. I guess I really don't use his, cuz Im kinda put out by him not callin me :S
I think if he wasn't into you, he wouldn't be hanging out with you every other day. Likely he either doesn't want to appear needy or simply is not needy enough to feel that communication on a daily basis is necessary. If it were me, I would be glad he wasn't acting like a hemorrhoid and trying to be up my butt all the time, especially after two weeks. But, I am one who needs my space.
I work with pretty much all men for the past 5 years, so I like to think I know how their mind works. I will be honest...he just wants to get into your pants. If he wanted more then that he would call. If a guy is interested he will do more then chat over the internet.
If you are looking for a little fun stick with it. If you want a relationship, I doubt you will find it there.
Sorry for the brutal honesty but I hate seeing girls get hurt by men and their games.
I think if he wasn't into you, he wouldn't be hanging out with you every other day. Likely he either doesn't want to appear needy or simply is not needy enough to feel that communication on a daily basis is necessary. If it were me, I would be glad he wasn't acting like a hemorrhoid and trying to be up my butt all the time, especially after two weeks. But, I am one who needs my space.
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Originally Posted by BeanBabe
I work with pretty much all men for the past 5 years, so I like to think I know how their mind works. I will be honest...he just wants to get into your pants. If he wanted more then that he would call. If a guy is interested he will do more then chat over the internet.
If you are looking for a little fun stick with it. If you want a relationship, I doubt you will find it there.
Sorry for the brutal honesty but I hate seeing girls get hurt by men and their games.
I agree with both perspectives!
I DO NOT like needy people, as I am very independent and dont like to be clung too....but like BB said, he could totally be using you.
I would make the effort to call/text him and see what his response is, if he avoids/dont text back etc...move on right there.
Im not to sure about the whole sex part, because I haven't slept with him, nor has he asked or tried to initiate it. I talked to him this morning and broke it off, simply because I didn't hear from him at all last night, which isnt cool in my books, and today we were suppose to hang out and he totally brushed me off for his friends who he was with all last night. Then went on to say he wasn't sure what he wanted, so I made that decision for him. I don't wanna invest my time and emotions in someone who doesn't know what they want.
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